Have you ever seen yourself settling for less?
You know..denying yourself from pursuing what it is you’ve always wanted to do in your life?
I know I used to and to be honest, I did it more than I realised every day.
You see.. I used to think I didn’t have a choice, that I was suppose to live life answering to a boss and fulfilling other people’s expectations.
I used to think that was just life and that I had to suck it up and accept it!
But I was wrong..
No one should live their life being a passive bystander where they lack control of where their life is going and how they choose to live it!
You are the author of your own story and you have the choice to almost everything in your life..
It took me awhile to understand this..it took me a redundancy in my job to realise I was better than that.
So today I shot a video that I’d love to share with you on how to stop settling for less than you deserve.
Do you know what the secret is to stop settling for less?
Keep giving yourself the time and energy to be your best.
Be your best by surrounding yourself with people who inspire you. Be your best by stepping out of what’s comfortable to you and challenging yourself to reach new heights.
The more effort and time you invest in yourself, the more you’ll discover another facet to yourself..one that is on his/her way towards greatness.
I hope you enjoy today’s video and remember..
Stop Settling and Start Living!
To your success,
Are you struggling to find your purpose?
A lot of people struggle to find their life purpose and feel like they are held back from becoming the best version of themselves.
In this video, I will explain a few secrets on how to find your purpose as well as a small surprise/ giveaway at the end of this video.
A lot of us spend our whole lives searching outside of ourselves, not realising all the keys to our purpose lies within us.
I really really hope you enjoy this video and I would love to hear your feedback if you have any.
As promised here is a link to a 30 day risk free trail ! You will have access to training modules,a bonus courses and even a business coach ! This will help you take your business to the next level 🙂 Click here to access the link.
Have you found out what your why is in life yet?
For me personally, I never discovered what my why was until a year and a half ago.
I used to live my life focusing on WHAT I had to do, the countless of tasks and responsibilities that kept mounting up on my plate and HOW I was going to keep up with everything.
Boy has my life changed drastically from that day..
I started to realise that life gets so much easier when I stop focusing on the WHAT and HOW but rather ask myself WHY I do what I do.
I live my life today based on my WHY, it’s what I think about every single day because it’s my WHY that fuels my passion and my motivation for life.
If you’re in a place in your life where you’re lacking motivation, it’s either because you’re losing site of why you do what you do or it’s because your why is simply not strong enough.
If there is one thing I’ve learnt this past year, your why is the single most important factor that will play a huge role in achieving success in your life.
Your WHY is so important that no matter how many setbacks or road blocks you encounter in your life; it is the fuel that continually propels you forward.
After a year and half of soul searching, personal development and continued growth, I finally discovered my WHY.
Let me tell you what they are..
My why is my family, my number one supporters, who sacrificed so much to fly me overseas 6 years ago so that I could find my feet and explore my true passions. All I want to do is give back and make them proud.
My why is being my own boss, having the ability to choose my own hours, control my own income and pursue my own passions so that I could live a life based on fulfilment and meaning.
My why is to travel, to experience different cultures and seek new adventures so that I could create a lifetime of unforgettable memories.
My why is my dream home, on the edge of a cliff where I wake up to stunning panoramic ocean views that leaves me breathless every time.
My why is to make people discover their own inner potential so that they can unleash that potential fearlessly into the world.
These whys I have are what I visualise every single day.
It is what makes me get out of bed each morning. It is what motivates me to keep chasing my dreams and moving forward even at times of difficulties and setbacks.
It is the fuel that keeps propelling me forward regardless of whatever circumstances come my way.
You see, when your WHY is strong enough, you’ll start to discover WHAT you need to do and HOW you’re going to get to where you truly want to be.
And when you’re in the process of doing this, you will discover so much more about yourself.
You’ll start to exceed your expectations, defying all your assumptions of what you thought was possible.
You’ll start to become resilient, challenging yourself, pushing your limits and doing things that you thought was once impossible.
You’ll start to grow, living life outside of your comfort zone and working towards becoming the best version of yourself.
It is the journey of living out your WHY where you will start to truly discover who you are and the purpose behind everything that you do.
So let me ask you this..
What is your WHY? What is it that makes you come alive?
If you’re not sure what your why is yet..that’s okay. You will have an opportunity to discover that.
But I want to challenge you today to start reflecting on your life and discover what it is that you love and what’s important to you.
Everyone has something that they love doing, whether that be spending time with friends and family, doing a particular hobby, your job, or traveling.
Whatever it is that you love doing, it’s important to keep it in mind constantly and use that as fuel to keep you motivated and moving forward.
Once you discover what’s truly important to you, the reason that gets you out of bed each and every day, you will start to discover your WHY, your purpose behind everything that you do.
And it is through discovering this WHY that your HOW and WHAT will start to reveal itself.
I hope you found this article helpful and that it inspires you to take action, live out your WHY and follow your dreams.
Merrilee – Co Founder of Lifestyle By My Own Design
Think of the five or ten people you spend most time with. What are these people doing? How passionate are they? Do they inspire you?
If the answer is no..then I highly suggest you assess your current environment and find people that will.
You see..a big factor that led to our entrepreneurial success was the people we surrounded ourselves with.
We chose to surround ourselves with people who impact the way we think, act and feel on a day-to-day basis.. people who challenged us to think bigger and bolder, people who inspired us to take massive action in our lives.
And might I add..
These people did not always have to be in person, they were in books, podcasts, videos and more that we had constantly immersed ourselves around.
The truth is.. I used to think entrepreneurship was unattainable. That it was too hard to build a successful online business due to the amount of scams out there promising success with a ‘click of a button’.
That’s what the general population always told me..
Then I started hanging out with entrepreneurs, who had drive, purpose and dreams, those who believed that insane things can be done as long as you have the right mentality and determination to pursue it..
The team and I are now on our second year of running a successful online business and we’re finally living a life based on fulfilment and meaning 🙂
Have a look at a video I produced the other day that truly captures the essence of our community and the people we surround ourselves with on a day to day basis..
The video was taken from our recent trip to Bali where we got to spend a full week masterminding (and having loads of fun) with some of the most influential and incredible entrepreneurs at the DEA Black retreat.
There is nothing more powerful than masterminding with people who not only inspire you, but who challenge you to become the best version of yourself.
So I challenge you to start involving yourself with people who lift you, inspire you, and motivate you to do and be more.
And as you grow, this might mean changing friends and colleagues, and that’s part of life.
Just trust in the power of your environment because it’s the people you surround yourself with that will play a huge factor in living the life you dream of.
We all have fear. Fear in small doses is healthy, but when fear goes unchecked for too long, it can restrain you from truly achieving success in your life.
A HUGE part of emotional intelligence is managing fear. How many times have you let fear stop you from taking action? How many times has fear kept your from following your passion and finding happiness.
Fear can crush your spirit. If your spirit is weakened your health is weakened, your happiness is impossible and you begin to lash out at the people around you. Fear is toxic.
One of the greatest fears is the fear of not having money. People don’t confront this fear logically, they react emotionally and end up making mistakes.
But if you have emotional intelligence, when the fear of not having enough money arises, instead of immediately running out to get a job, you might ask yourself ‘Is a job the best solution over the long run?’ the answer is no. A job is a short-term solution to a long-term problem.
The solution is not to have a job, but to have an asset. A key distinction I learned from reading Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad is that the rich do not work for money. The rich work to build and obtain assets such as an online business similar to the one we have created that runs on systems.
Leaving our jobs, facing our fears and stepping into the unknown has allowed us to finally live the life we always wanted. Earning over 88K last month in April while we have been enjoying our time in the Philippines is amazing.
All because we applied the training provided by the Six Figure Mentors and had a burning desire to make it work.
You can use your passion as fuel to start an online business or anything that can create an asset for yourself. When you mix your passion with knowledge you have two key ingredients to defeating fear.
If you’re interested in learning how to create an online business that can allow you the time freedom to pursue what it is you are passionate about, then click here.
Now it’s time for me to spend the rest of the day with my family celebrating my grandma’s 85th birthday 🙂
Have a great week ahead!
Chris – Co Founder of Lifestyle By My Own Design
I’m writing you this as I sit in the airport waiting for our final flight home to Perth.
For the last 6 weeks my team and I have had such an amazing time traveling all over the Philippines spending well needed time with close family and friends and I really can’t believe how quick the weeks flew by…
Anyway, while waiting for my flight I plugged into one of my favorite podcasts and this got me thinking, maybe you’ve heard this before . . .
“Look at the income of the 5 people that you hang out with most and your income will be roughly the average of those people.”
I’ve heard it many times, and have done a lot of introspection on this idea. I do believe it to be absolutely true, but for many of us it’s just not that easy to seek out 5 highly successfully people and hang out with them enough for their ideals to rub off.
I look at the people I hang out with most, my mates from school, parents, my grandparents, and my few close friends that live in close proximity, and when I do an income analysis of what they make compared to myself I’m left scratching my head.
I’m doing way better than all of them. I don’t say this to brag, but rather to try to work out why I’ve been able to achieve success when I don’t necessarily hang out with hyper successful people on a daily basis.
You wanna know what I discovered?
I cheated my way to where I am.
There is absolutely a way to rub elbows with the best and brightest and have their way of thinking rub off on you enough to make great gains personally, health, wealth, and whatever else.
What has allowed me to personally break away from the pack while still spending most of time with them?
The one thing I do, that others I know surely don’t is, I listen to motivational material every single day and it’s rubbed off on me in a big way.
My iPhone is packed with Brendon Burchard, Jim Rohn, Les Brown, Earl Nightingale, Zig Ziglar, Napoleon Hill, etc. You name it and I’m listening to it on a daily basis.
It’s literally a way to cheat your way to a millionaire mindset.
Wake up each day and listen to something highly motivational for an hour and you’ll see just how little time it will take you to start approaching those goals you once thought were just dreams.
Keeping Your Passion Alive